If you’re ready to stop your people pleasing ways, build better boundaries so that you can RECONNECT with the real you... then this workshop is just for you.
If you’re ready to stop your people pleasing ways, build better boundaries so that you can RECONNECT with the real you... then this workshop is just for you.
IT’S TIME TO PUT YOUR OWN NEEDS FIRST.
IT'S TIME TO FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT, RATHER THAN ON HOW YOU WILL BE RECEIVED.
AND IT'S TIME TO RECONNECT WITH THE REAL YOU!
ARE YOU IN?
- Have you ever wondered why you just can’t say no when you want to and end up going along with things just because it feels easier and you won’t offend anyone?
- Are there times when you feel taken for granted and overlooked at home, within your friendships or at work?
- Have you noticed you dim your light just so that you fit in and are scared to shine?
- Do you ever wish you could put your own desires and wants first without feeling you’re being selfish?
RECONNECT
WILL SHOW YOU HOW TO LIVE A LIFE THAT FEELS FULLY IN ALIGNMENT WITH WHO YOU REALLY ARE.
WHO IS RECONNECT FOR?
Here’s who I designed this workshop for:
- Those who feel like there are two voices living in their heads - the one they feel they should listen to and the one they want to listen to!
- People pleasers, you know who I mean, those who say yes when they really mean no and who then feel resentful afterwards!
- Anyone unhappy with the direction their life is moving and who think change is for other people.
- Those who live in their heads and believe that being able to control everything is the best way to protect themselves.
- Those who feel totally disconnected from who they are and want to find their way back. They want to reconnect.
NO MORE…
…saying yes to others when you mean no.
…feeling like your needs don’t matter.
…being taken for granted like your time doesn’t matter.
…feeling unable to express your feelings or opinions
…being unsure of who you even are anymore
"I recently worked with Niamh on her Change Made Easy Challenge and I was genuinely surprised that the impact her work has made on me. Niamh has this warm and engaging style where she openly shares her personal experiences to show you just what change is possible if you really want it. She’s extremely knowledgeable and very practical in her guidance but she also combines this with a warm and spiritual presence on how to get your mindset in order too.
I’ll be honest and admit that I’ve resisted this combination before and yet now I can see that it was exactly this that has changed everything for me! Her work is unquestionably powerful and I would recommend you check it out to see what I’m talking about."
JANE
—
GLASGOW, SCOTLAND
After years of thinking that if I only did what others wanted me to do, they would never abandon or judge me, I’m sharing with you just how I created a life that has made me infinitely happier and still allows me to be of deep service to those around me.
DO YOU WANT TO HEAR MORE?
“WHY CAN’T I SAY NO WHEN I WANT TO?”
You’re disconnected from who you really are. You are afraid people will think you’re being selfish, that you only suit yourself. You’re scared they’ll stop asking you to do things or go places and before you know it, you’ll be alone and the one they all give out about.
Sound familiar?
I'M HERE TO TELL YOU:
YOU CAN BE A GOOD PERSON AND STILL SAY NO!
You’re here to live your own best life, the best way you can.
The problem is, when you're too concerned with what others will think and say about that, you adapt what you do for them. You disconnect from yourself in the process and when we feel disconnected, we aren’t even sure what it is we want to say and do.
When we spend so long doing what we believe will make other people happy, we completely deny ourselves in this process. And every time we say yes instead of no or put other people’s needs first, we deepen the feeling of disconnect.
This workshop has been specifically created to help you change your people-pleasing ways, show you the benefits of building better boundaries and teach exactly how you can reconnect to yourself in a meaningful way.
“I wasn’t that sure about just what in my life I would be able to change, but I had an increasing feeling that something wasn’t right, and hadn’t been for a long while. I needed someone who would gently guide me and keep me accountable for making changes in my life and this was where Niamh came into her own.
You definitely feel she is approaching this from experience and for me, that made such a difference. She was supportive and warm but firm, practical and encouraging. She inspired me to change and I’ll always be so grateful for that."
SUSIE
—
DUBLIN
IF YOU'RE LIKE MOST WOMEN I TALK TO, CHANCES ARE YOU…
- You feel totally disconnected from that deep part of yourself that knows what you want from your future life.
- It’s been so long since you asked yourself that question that you’ve no idea what the answer might be.
- You’re scared of what you might discover if you sit and listen to the answer.
- You worry that others will think you’re being selfish by putting yourself first.
- You are scared if you put better boundaries in situ that you won’t be needed anymore.
- You are honestly terrified that if you go after what it is you want and fail that people will think you’ve got notions or worse that they’ll wait for you to fail.
So you stay where you are. And you feel more miserable and more disconnected.
But if you’re being really honest, you’re sick of your needs coming after everybody else’s. You’re so utterly fed up watching everyone else go after and get what they want and you are still here, disconnected from yourself.
I used to believe that the more I did for others the more they would value, appreciate and need me. And when I realised this in fact wasn't true, it changed not only how I saw them, but most importantly, how I saw myself.
For the first time, I started to think about what might happen if I showed up as myself, if I said what I wanted to say and did what I wanted to do, would I be rejected or abandoned?
Guess what? I wasn’t.
Those I valued most, stayed.
They understood what I was doing but also why I was doing it.
I started to realise that it wasn’t so much that I needed to change, I just needed to give myself permission to be who I really was inside.
TO RECONNECT WITH MYSELF.
This workshop will help you bridge that divide so you can learn how to become more YOU and to feel really good and confident about that.
HERE'S WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT FROM THE WORKSHOP:
- You will learn when and how to say no, when no is exactly what you mean!
- You’ll find the courage to speak your truth and express your own opinion without fear of being silenced.
- You’ll realise that you deserve to have what you want just as much as anyone else. No more dimming your light just to fit in.
- You’ll discover that not always being available to others is not you saying you don’t love them but that you love yourself too.
- You’ll have the skills to overcome your people pleasing ways and instead have boundaries that will serve you so much better.
YOU WILL ALSO RECEIVE:
- Worksheets so that you can continue doing your own work afterward.
- A bespoke Meditation created by me on the subject of RECONNECTION
- Journaling Prompts to encourage you to create a new daily practice.
- Exercise on Creating Affirmations so that you can begin the process of changing how you think about yourself.
- A recording of the Workshop in case life gets in the way and you can’t attend live!
ARE YOU FINALLY READY TO END YOUR PEOPLE PLEASING WAYS, PUT YOURSELF FIRST, BUILD BETTER BOUNDARIES AND RECONNECT TO THE REAL YOU?
One payment of €87
2 x instalments of €43.50
DON'T JUST TAKE MY WORD FOR IT...
I know this works because I’ve done it. I went from being your traditional people-pleaser who never said no, was always available and equated saying no with being selfish and a road destined to lead to being alone.
I’ve gone on to share these tools with my own clients and here’s what they have to say…
“When I started working with Niamh the idea of expressing my own desires and putting these ahead of other people just felt wrong. “What would people think?” was the first thing I thought to myself.
Niamh showed me that so many of my habits were due to my lack of confidence in myself, my feeling undeserving of having what I needed and that was such an eye opener. I could see when it started and how I had convinced myself that doing things as I did was the only way. It wasn’t and I now embody that.
I’d go so far as to say that my friends and family feel closer to me now because when I’m with them it’s because I really want to be not because I feel I have to be. Plus I have developed a much stronger connection with myself and that truly feels amazing!”
EMILY C
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GLASGOW, SCOTLAND
“In lots of ways I really regret having wasted so much time chasing other people, always trying to do what I thought they wanted me to do. I have to admit now that I totally allowed myself to get taken for granted. I was the doormat! I know people took advantage of me but the truth is I let them. But not any more.
“I see now that I need to tune in to what it is that I really want to do and then do that. I acknowledge that I have responsibilities and looking after my elderly mum is one of them, I really love being there for her but everyone else can wait, I am my own priority now and that’s okay and once I’ve tended to myself, only then am I ready to turn my attention to others. It’s self love not selfishness. And strangely enough when I changed my thinking and started implementing Niamh’s guidelines the hilarious thing was that nobody really noticed. They just observed I seemed happier!! Oh the irony!”
LARA
—
SANDYCOVE, DUBLIN
“Niamh, I’m not sure you’ll print this, but when you mentioned first about reconnecting with myself I admit I was more than a little sceptical. You know how practical I am and this felt like we might be moving too far into woo-woo land. I couldn’t have been more wrong and I’m sorry for making you work for that. It was only when you made me realise just how disconnected I was, how much I lived in my head and had totally shut myself off to feeling anything I couldn’t control, that things really started to shift for me.
I love that you gave me so many practical tools that I return to time and time again but if I hadn’t understood the need for me to reconnect to myself it wouldn’t have worked as well as it did. If you’re thinking about working with Niamh on this topic then just do it. It will be the best decision you make.”
MAIREAD
—
RATHNEW, CO WICKLOW
BOOK NOW FOR "RECONNECT”
Monday 12th April, 7pm Ireland / UK
A 90 minute online workshop for recovering people-pleasers who want to RECONNECT with who they really are and create better boundaries even if they’re scared of what others might think.
Value of investment in yourself… just €87.
SIGN UP BELOW:
One payment of €87
2 x instalments of €43.50
Let me reduce your overwhelm and share my personal strategy with you so that you can finally honour yourself and all you want and deserve from your life.
I’ll guide you from craving approval and acceptance toward a place of deepening confidence and self-belief at my RECONNECT Workshop on Monday April 12th.
I know first-hand how effective life can be when we reconnect with ourselves, when we are very clear on what we want from life and how it can fast track us to finding that sense of inner confidence and belief that it can be ours.
And now, I want to help you do the same!
“People talk about Niamh's Tough Love Energy ™ and my god, but it’s true. I wanted to change how I felt, especially in my relationships and it happened for me, thanks to her.
She moves you forward and pushes you without you fully realising it. She calls you out if you’re avoiding doing the work or ignoring what’s in front of you. She also holds you accountable which we all need but the whole time you feel really supported and heard.
It's like the loving kick we all need but I felt safe trusting her to get me to where I needed to go. Being heard was a big thing for me. That and getting results, and with Niamh I definitely got both!”
SARAH FARRELL
—
ENNISCORTHY, WEXFORD
IT'S TIME TO DECIDE...
You can continue being the people-pleaser that everyone knows they can rely on, who’s always available to go anywhere and do anything.
You can stay disconnected and manage everything that happens in your life from a cold, unfeeling, place of control.
OR...
You can choose to reconnect with yourself, decide what it is that you want from your life, who you want to become and build better boundaries to honour yourself by putting your needs first.BELOW:
SIGN UP BELOW:
One payment of €87
2 x instalments of €43.50
MEET YOUR HOST
Hi, I’m Niamh, your Transformation Coach.
I work with women like you, who feel stuck and unable to move forward who are simply searching for some guidance so you don’t have to do it alone. We were never meant to do any of this alone!
My aim is always to inspire you to heal by transforming that part of your life that’s blocking you. Everyone has their zone of genius. Mine is helping people to reconnect with who they really are and giving them the confidence and self-belief they need to chase their desires in life.
Engaging my Tough Love Energy, I’ve worked with some incredible women and seen some miraculous transformations. I remind you that you’re here to get every drop you deserve from your life not to fit in, not to dim your light, or to stay silent. You’re here to totally shine and that starts with reconnecting with yourself.
I can’t wait to see you at the workshop on Monday April 12th!
Niamh x
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